Help and rules

Safety centre

A good evening starts with feeling safe. A few habits make a big difference, on dates and in Privé alike.

While you are still chatting

  • Stay in the Kissoir chat until you trust the person. Blocking and reporting only work inside Kissoir.
  • If anyone asks you for money, a gift card or crypto, stop and report them. Genuine matches do not ask.
  • Check for the Verified badge. If you have doubts, suggest a short video call first.

On the night

  • For a first meeting, choose a busy public place and let a friend know where and when.
  • Get there and home on your own terms.
  • Keep an eye on your drink and your things, and feel free to leave at any moment.

When something feels wrong

  • In an emergency, call 112.
  • Tap Report on the profile, message or listing, or fill in the report form. Reports about a minor, trafficking or someone being controlled are read first.
  • Block the person and you both disappear from each other across Kissoir immediately.

Warning signs in a Privé listing

  • Someone other than the companion answers or makes the arrangements.
  • The companion seems frightened, unable to leave, or without their own phone or papers.
  • The companion may be under 18.

Please report any of these. You do not have to give your name.