Safety centre
A good evening starts with feeling safe. A few habits make a big difference, on dates and in Privé alike.
While you are still chatting
- Stay in the Kissoir chat until you trust the person. Blocking and reporting only work inside Kissoir.
- If anyone asks you for money, a gift card or crypto, stop and report them. Genuine matches do not ask.
- Check for the Verified badge. If you have doubts, suggest a short video call first.
On the night
- For a first meeting, choose a busy public place and let a friend know where and when.
- Get there and home on your own terms.
- Keep an eye on your drink and your things, and feel free to leave at any moment.
When something feels wrong
- In an emergency, call 112.
- Tap Report on the profile, message or listing, or fill in the report form. Reports about a minor, trafficking or someone being controlled are read first.
- Block the person and you both disappear from each other across Kissoir immediately.
Warning signs in a Privé listing
- Someone other than the companion answers or makes the arrangements.
- The companion seems frightened, unable to leave, or without their own phone or papers.
- The companion may be under 18.
Please report any of these. You do not have to give your name.